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Redefine the Holiday Spirit
In times of economic woe, parents may stress over the holidays. Instead of worrying about what you can’t provide, take this opportunity to foster attitudes of gratitude in your children.

An economic downturn can open the door for parents to teach their children about meaningful holiday activities rather than focusing on the material aspects of an expensive Halloween costume or big Thanksgiving dinner.

While it may be a good idea to discuss financial concerns with older children, it’s also an opportunity to foster learning moments and positive parenting time.

“Children should learn early on that they don’t need the most expensive items or foods they want,” says David Bennett, PhD, Clinical Psychologist at Children’s Mercy Hospitals and Clinics.

“Smaller kids are often more interested in the time they may spend making a costume with their mom or dad than how spiffy or complex it is.”

While you can use the holidays as a great way to teach your kids valuable lessons, it’s also a great time to find innovative ways of helping your pocketbook survive the season.

  • Consider trading Halloween costumes between family, friends or co-workers rather than buying new costumes.
  • Get crafty and make holiday decorations with your child.
  • Suggest potluck Thanksgiving dinner with family members.



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